Dr. Foreplay,
When I have sex I can go on and on and can have sex 4
times in a row after I cum. I want to have sex all the
time and I masturbate all the time. The problem is when
my girlfriend is not horny, I watch porn and masturbate
and she doesn't like this. What can I do?
Signed,
Vern
Vern,
Vern you animal. it seems that you are at your sexual
prime and unfortunately your female isn't. What you can
do is try to space out the periods you have sex. Try having
sex once in the morning and once at night. From there
you shouldn't be as sex starved. As for the porn thing,
try to watch it when she is not around. All guys watch
porn. It is just the way they are programmed. I think
it has something to do with testosterone, but I could
be wrong.
Dr.
Foreplay,
Can you give me some tips and tricks on giving my boyfriend
a lap dance?
Signed,
Cheri
Cheri,
If you want to give the ultimate lap dance you have to
learn the art of teasing. It has to deal with giving a
little and then taking it back. What your guy is used
to, is you giving in to him when you have sex. In other
words, he is the one that controls the situation. This
time, if you are giving him the lap dance, you must control
the situation. Let him touch, but not too much. If he
goes overboard, feel free to take his hands of your body.
On the other hand, you can touch whatever you want. Now
for the dancing, you can learn a lot by going to strip
clubs. These girls get paid for teasing me. Learn some
of their dance moves. And finally, lots of men find garter
belts, stockings, and high heels erotic. Have this under
your clothing and give him a peek during the first dance.
Most of all, make sure it is fun for both of you!
Dr. Foreplay,
What are some great positions for people that are overweight?
Signed,
Jessi
Jessi,
People who are overweight can also have sex and try out
the regular positions. There are 5 main categories: male
superior, female superior, side by side, oral sex, and
rear entry. Although flexibility may not be a option for
people who are overweight, you can still engage in sex
using couches and chairs. It is important to note that
more foreplay, and stimulation orally and with your hands
can help make sex more enjoyable.
Dr. Foreplay,
I am in my late teens and have been with my boyfriend
for about two and a half years. He is three years older
than me and more experienced sexually. I lost my virginity
to him and am becoming more comfortable sexually with
him, but as of late, he wants to cum in my mouth while
I am performing oral sex. I personally do not want to
do this and feel that it’s disgusting. I am just
afraid that if I don’t do the little things, then
it won’t be pleasurable for him.
Signed,
Jasmine
Jasmine,
Since you are not sexually experienced, I can see why
you might be disgusted. All you have to do is tell him
to take it slow and give you some time to adjust to the
situation. Instead of swallowing, what you can do is let
him come and use your finger to swab up a little of his
semen. Test it out and see how you feel about the taste.
If you can handle the taste then you can try taking a
little in next time. From there you can move forward into
swallowing. What you have to realize is that you are in
control here. If you don’t want to swallow then feel
free to spit it out. Some of my girlfriends make sure
they have some water to drink after they swallow. You
can also spit his ejaculate into the cup if you don’t
feel like swallowing at that time.
Dr. Foreplay,
I am female and enjoy masturbating, but I want to try
something new. What are some other ways that a female
can masturbate?
Signed,
Harriet
Harriet,
Well there are the traditional ways of masturbation such
as using a dildo or vibrator. There are some advanced
vibrators that have attachments for clitoral stimulation.
And there is my favorite, using a massaging shower head.
If you have one that is remove able and has adjustable
speed settings, you can use it to stimulate your entire
body including your clitoris. Just make sure you aren't
late for work because of it!
Dr. Foreplay,
When I ask my female friends, I get different answers
for the question: “Does size Matter?” My question
is why wouldn’t a 5 inch cock feel different than
a 9 inch one?
Signed,
Brad
Brad,
Yes a 5 inch penis would feel different than a 9 inch
one, but what your female friends are trying to say is
that it doesn’t really matter what size it is, what
matters is who it is attached. If the 5 inch penis is
attached to a person they can grow with emotionally and
physically and a 9 inch penis is attached to a person
who treats them like dirt and doesn’t respect them,
guess which size they will choose? Of course, a large
penis on a lovable, caring guy is what every woman dreams
of - he's the total package.
