You are used to be the recognized stud among your male and female friends, still, there may come a day when you like a girl very much and desperately desire to make things perfect between you two, but there's something going wrong on the sexual side. How come? What's to be done? Find out now.
1. She never orgasms during penetration
How come: First of all, it is rarely a man's fault when the 
woman he made sex to has difficulties in reaching orgasm. And there is as much as 60% of the feminine population, who find penetration insufficient for a glorious climax. It doesn't mean such a girl is frigid or is condemned to a sexual life without pleasure. She just needs careful clitoris stimulation (the spot is one of the most erogenous in the feminine body) and penetration can't do this. Simple vaginal penetration can bring orgasms to a very small and lucky part of the feminine population. Maybe she just isn't one of them.
What's to be done: give her what she needs – an incredible touch with your most skillful finger, generously lubricated, or, even better with your tongue.
2. There are weeks when she doesn't seem to want you anymore
How come: Well, you have to realize that not all persons have the same degree of sexual drive. It's not that she finds you ugly and unattractive all of a sudden. Sometimes, both men and women suffer a libido decrease, especially in spring when most of them are asthenia influenced, through periods of great stress or psychological disturbances. All these plus a normal boredom (from time to time) are perfectly able to kill the passion for a while.
What's to be done: You (and her) should start a regular fitness routine (swimming, mountain climbing, jogging or, simply, walking in a park) to put your blood in circulation. Do something different at least in weekends (organize "al fresco" lunches, travel). You will soon see a revival of the libido without striving to find new sexual positions.
3. I feel like I lost a part of my virility
How come: Maybe we should, first of all, define the notion "impotence" or loss of virility. It usually names a man's inability to carry out a sex session, but it can also be extended to a man's poor sperm production. The first symptom can be noticed on the spot and it's a killer for the man who experiences it. Girls are not that affected if such a thing happens once in a blue moon, but her partner usually is very affected. The second is noticed only years later, when trying to procreate.
What's to be done: Your virility loss is very much like her lack of libido. If nothing bad happened to your Willy (like hurting him), then it must have nervous or psychological causes. The sexual functions, hormonal activities and the central nervous system work as a team, so it's absolutely normal to also fail together. A man who has experienced such a problem once, is very likely to suffer anxiety and fear as to whether the next intercourse will be successful. Try to find out if your lady has the same seductive effects on you as she used to. If the answer is "yes", just have a good rest, eat a favorite meal, drink one or two red wine glasses, improvise a romantic atmosphere and give sex a chance again. If the answer is "no", you have about three possibilities:
Try your luck with another lady. You have the most innocent excuse: verify if your "things" still work properly.
Give your lover a chance. Have a talk with her and decide to make efforts together in order to revive your sex life. Variation never killed, so try new positions, new backgrounds, new romantic tricks (candles, erotic accessories, massage oils).
Stuff yourself with some enhancers. If skeptical about all those Viagra-like medicines, you have always the natural way. The blend of pollen and royal jelly is particularly efficient and healthy.
4. I like watching porn movies, but she doesn't
How come: Most of the guys find porn material (magazines, movies) exciting and benefic for their sex life, and, at the same time, can't understand girl's attitude towards the same stuff. A girls may find interesting a porn movie from time to time, but silly and gross when forced to watch such things all the time. Even if she doesn't live with their parents anymore, a very strict prior education makes her feel guilty. Of course the girl knows nobody is watching her, but she is watching herself mentally (sex therapists call it "spectatoring"), that's why she can't enjoy it. Another possible cause is a very sensible stomach.
What's to be done: Don't watch porn films after you have had sex with her. After an hour of sexual action, it's understandable why her reaction is repulsive. On the other hand, if you are resolved to watch the entire movie before the real action, it's still not the best idea you could have. She will be sick and tired of it, because there is such a thing as the point of no return, when bodies and minds have had enough of sex. You must feel like there's no acceptable option, is it? Well, you can start by watching the movie and after half an hour, when you will be both turned on and inspired, press "pause" and get into "the real thing". I bet you won't regret!
5. I like being given blowjobs, but my girl doesn't know if it's better to swallow or to spit...
How come: If you'd have to host a weird fluid in your mouth, you'd be as reticent as she is. When she is experiencing this for the first time, you have to be patient and understanding. If she is not ready, she may throw up. Veeery unpleasant! Some girls prefer to discreetly move their mouth before the sperm is ejaculated (and in order to do so, your partner needs a sign from you, like pulling her head back). Others just gulp it down.
What's to be done: Sit down and talk to her. Find out how she feels about swallowing. Maybe this piece of information will be of help: semen is a solution of proteins, fats and sugars. So, nothing fulsome! Moreover, the quantity ejaculated is worth of a couple of teaspoons only = 120 sperms, and has a salty taste. If she still doesn't seem clear, use a condom: it's not quite the same feeling, but you can come whenever you wish and she can blow you to the end.
6. I'm not pleased with my penis size and I fear my girlfriend is not happy with it either.
How come: Adam too was probably confronted with this problem. Unless your penis is 4" long, you have nothing to worry about. But even so, this length may be sufficient for some girls (they too have different vagina depths). If you have a penis that is 7" or 8" long, it will be able to reach the most sensitive areas of a girl's genital area (especially the famous G-spot), so it's no use to ask for more. From 9" and further, women will not be so pleased to host your penis, as it is too large and intercourse becomes painful. Thickness, but mostly the things it can do with your help and mastery count too.
What's to be done: I wouldn't recommend you to take pills that supposedly grow your penis, but if this could help you escape your obsession, go for it! What you should by all means do is ask your girl if she feels satisfied with your representation in bed. After all... that's what really counts!
