10 Secrets To Being Romantic

There can be many reasons why she is treating you this way. One of the biggest reason that couples argue today, is over money. If this is not an issue for you and your partner, then perhaps it is because the flame is not burning for the two of you anymore. If you and your partner want to light that fire again, it is time to learn the secrets of romance, outlined just for you.

Secret # 1: Think of Her First
Yes we are shallow. We are also selfish. Sometimes, we need to take the time to think of her and what her needs are. The first thing you must do is respect her. Respect her and treat her like a queen and things will move forward for you.

Secret # 2: Do More and Get More
In order to get more of what you want, you have to start doing more things for her (I am assuming you want sex here, but if you want something else, you can ask for that too!). I am not saying that you should be at her beck and call. What I am trying to say is that you should try to do more things with her. Watch movies, go for picnics, or even take a walk. It doesn't necessarily depend on how much you spend on her, but its more about spending time with her. Try to do things with other couples and even her friends. It's about going out and having fun.

You should also try to find some time for just the two of you. Hire a babysitter and don't invite your friends. Set up romantic getaways once a month (or more) where just the two of you can spend some time alone with each other.

Secret # 3: Spontaneous and Playful
Being spontaneous is a characteristic that many women find very attractive. Not only does it show that you like to have fun, but it shows that you are creative. There is a trick that you can use to be spontaneous: Plan without telling her. That is, when you are going out to have fun, try to plan a fun event that you can do while you are with her. For example, if you are going to the park, perhaps you can stop off and buy some bread to feed the birds. Or if you are going to the water park, drop by the mall and pick up some squirt guns. It may seem small but it will give you some major brownie points.

Secret # 4: Be Appreciative
Many guys take their girlfriends for granted and they don't realize this till they are kicked to the curb. One thing that a guy must notice is the small things that she does. Do you realize that it takes a long time to cook dinner? Do you notice that she takes care of you and spoils you? Be aware of the things that she does and thank her for it. Not only will it show that you appreciate her, but it will ensure that she will still do it for you. Don't take notice and she will stop doing it for you.

Secret # 5: Timing
Being romantic is about remembering and timing the surprise. When it comes to timing, there is always the right time to give a gift, to ask her out to dinner, or to surprise her with something spontaneous. Every situation is different, but you should always think timing. When it comes to remembering dates, there are certain dates you should never forget: Valentines Day, her birthday, anniversaries, or Christmas. Her birthday and your anniversary should be tattooed on your arms.

Secret # 6: Pay Attention to Details
There is one thing that girls do hate, unorganized men. If you plan to take her out, make sure that you have all the bases covered. Also have a backup plan. Women love dates and being taken out. But she hates sitting down and doing nothing. Make sure you have a step by step plan when you take her out. Also make sure you pay attention to all the details. Girls always notice the small detailing. Girls always notice the smallest things: the shoes that you wear, the color of your socks, and even your hair. Why? It must be genetic because guys are not that anal.

Secret # 7: Chivalry Pays Off
Being a gentleman has its perks. It shows sophistication and girls adore men who take care of them. Look at James Bond. Good old 007 is always polite to the ladies and always takes care of them. All it takes is some manners, being polite, and being able to fight bad guys while in a suit. I think the car has something to do with it too, but we can always start with the manners.

Secret # 8: Be More Accommodating
Guys seem to think that they should just do what they want to do. They make their girlfriends wait by the phone. They plan events without asking if she is busy. They just leave their girlfriends while they go out with the guys. We are all busy and want to do our thing, but there should always be some time to schedule her in. Try doing something that she will want to do.

Always be willing to try something new. It is spontaneous and playful and it is part of secret #3. You never know, you might enjoy horse back riding and sunsets on a beach.

Secret # 9: Compromise is the Key
It takes a lot to keep a relationship going. Compromise is the essential ingredient for all long term relationships. When both of you are arguing, compromising will make both of you happy. When you are deciding on things to do and places to go, compromising is the solution. And when it comes to big decisions about the relationship, compromising is the key.

Secret #10: Be Romantic Often
The more romantic you are the more often you will have fun. Try to spend time and give romantic gestures to your lover at least once a week. A phone call, an email, or even an ecard can do wonders for a relationship. You can do these once a week and it doesn't even cost you a dime.