A lot of guys out there like to plan a romantic dinner for their significant other on Valentine’s Day, but some guys have more than one lady to please. Yeah, we all know you shouldn’t date more than one lady at the same time, but knowing and doing are two different things. Since group dates are out of the question, you are going to need to do some juggling to keep all your babies happy on the most romantic day of the year. The good news is there is 24 hours in the day; the bad news is there’s only one of you to go around. This article will give you tips on how to plan the day they will remember for a long time, and not because you get caught with your hands in the bootie jar. And if you do it right, you will keep everybody happy, and no one will get angry or busted. So read on prepare to do it right, baby! Valentine’s Day just got a whole lot more interesting.
Step 1 – Planning Your Time
There is one surefire way to ruin any special event, and that’s by leaving the planning of it to the last minute. Valentine’s Day tends to be a busy day for everyone from flower shops to restaurants, so you need to figure out what you are going to do and set it up in advance. No one will be happy if you are driving around looking for a restaurant that isn’t full, or if you have to buy a shitty Valentine’s Day card because all the good ones were bought and sold weeks ago. Plus, you want to enjoy the fruit of your labors, so make a list and get on it before the 14th. And scheduling is key, as you have more than one lady to please on this day. Your best bet is to make a list of who gets in on the fun and who doesn’t. Rank them, so that you make sure you pay the right amount of attention to each one off your ladies. Remember – the ladies love Valentine’s Day, even if they act like they don’t. So even if you plan on blowing off some of your harem, a phone call, card or flowers can go a long way to keep them happy.
Step 2 – What To Do
Odds are you will need the whole day to make this work, so you might want to call in sick. Break the day up into 4 segments – morning, lunch, dinner, and evening – and book someone in for each one. If you have been dating more than one at a time for a while, then you must be good at making excuses. You need to figure out a way to show your love in all four of those segments, and you need to do it without the cheesy Hallmark crap that most 16-year-old boys use. Dusty heart-shaped chocolates you buy at a gas station do not imply love; they imply that you are a lazy man. Here are a few suggestions of what you can do in the four segments:
Morning
Breakfast & Sex In Bed
You can cover the first one off by telling her you can’t spend the night on the 14th, but you can on the 13th. That way you wake up with her on Valentine’s Day and can forget about her after breakfast. No matter what, you should be making her breakfast. If you can get up and do it while she is asleep, all the better. Make sure you make something more elaborate than a bowl of cereal. She will appreciate the thoughtfulness you are showing, and it will leave her happy for the rest of the day. Sex is always a good thing. Maybe you can set the mood by waking her up with some sensual music, something smoky. Or surprise her by joining her in the shower, but in either case add in some fresh flowers or even some rose petals. This is also a good time to give her the gift you bought her, like some lingerie and a good card – buy something nice, not cheesy. And make sure you take the time to write something nice to her in the card – personalize it so she will know you care. Remember – she needs to save face in front of her friends who will wonder why you aren’t seeing her that night, so make sure you pay attention to the details.
Lunch
Food & Afternoon Delights
When we say lunch, we actually mean sex. Try this out. Book a hotel room for the day, and she can be the first to come over. If you want to get her in the mood, send her some flowers. Send her those flowers around 11:30, with instructions on what hotel to be at by noon and a key to the room you will be waiting in. You can be the meal, and she will have the flowers and card back at the office to placate the coworkers who think you are cheating on her.
Dinner
Cocktails
Remember that hotel room you still have? Will you now have a few hours to get the maid to come up and change the sheets, have a workout and hot tub in the hotel’s gym, and maybe a short nap before your next visit. Now you run a slight risk that your lunch date might try and come back, which is why she needs to understand that you only had the room for 2 hours. For the classy touch, send a limo to her workplace to pick her up and bring her over. You can have dinner in the room – light lots of candles and have a hot bath waiting. Just remember you have to leave by 10pm. Come up with a good excuse, because she won’t want to go. Tell her you don’t have the room for the night, and you have an early meeting in the morning. Then take her home and head to the club where number 4 is waiting.
Evening
Clubbing & Sex
This is the last one of the night, so leave the girl that works the latest to round out your evening. Pick her up and take her to a club, and party until it’s time to take her home. See if there is anything unique going on that night in your city – a good band will do the trick. Just pick something you know she will enjoy, and then you can keep the good love flowing that much longer. Plus, you know that you are going to end up getting laid at the end of the night, so why rush? If you really want to do every player proud, then go back to her place, have sex, and then head home for a refreshing night’s sleep in your own bed.
Final Thoughts
Whatever you decide to do this Valentine’s Day, just remember to plan things at least a day or two in advance so you can accommodate all of your lady friend’s schedules. If you pull this off, you can bask in the glow from the day you did right and lap up all that love from all those ladies.
