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Multiple Orgasms Part 1
Who Says Less is More?

For the most part sex is always an enjoyable thing, especially when it is shared with the person you care about. And if you really do care about that person, you'll make their pleasure your number one priority during those hot, passionate love-making sessions. Although the path to climax is nothing to ignore in the pleasure department, the orgasm is usually seen as the ultimate goal for any couple engaged in sexual activity. Often sought after, sometimes found, the orgasm usually ends up signally the conclusion of intercourse and is a segue to cuddling, afterplay or sleep. But what if you could prolong her enjoyment with a wave of pleasure that could rival any single big 'O'? Yes, we're talking about bringing her to multiple orgasm. In this two-part series we'll begin by laying out the truth on the multiple orgasms, what they are, how they feel and the types that may occur. Then, next week we'll get into some techniques you can use to more successfully turn her O into O, O, O, O, O, O... So lets get to it! Are you ready boys? Yes! Yes! Yes!

Get Her in Tune
Reading about multiple orgasms and actually experiencing them is obviously two different things, but in my opinion, the only way she will get closer to having them is by learning about them, hearing about other people's experiences and though 'practice, practice, practice!' If we look at the fundamental differences between men and women, we can begin to see why it is possible for a woman to have more than one while it is difficult (if not impossible) for men to experience the same type of pleasure. We know that after an orgasm has been achieved, the female will usually maintain a certain level of arousal for minutes or even hours after intercourse has concluded. So, while Mr. Willy has hit deep sleep, Miss Kitty could still be waiting for round 2. This is because, unfortunately for you, males must typically endure what is called a refractory period after orgasm has been achieved. This essentially means that the male genitalia needs to take a break for around 20 to 30 minutes in order to recover fully from the previous activities. For women this refractory period simple does not exist. This means that if she has had one orgasm, it is possible for her to have two, three, ten, or even more orgasms in the same session. Now aren't you jealous?

Without the need for a refractory period, a woman can experience at least two types of multiple orgasm. The first type, often referred to as the sequential multiple orgasm, comes one after another but can be a few minutes apart. This usually happens with those women who stay aroused for some time after sex. Here, the male can continue stimulating her after her first orgasm and after a few minutes she will be sure to climax again, more easily and often more intensely. Although this can be performed quite easily, her genitals may be so sensitive to stimulation after sex that it is too overwhelming to continue stimulating them. In this case, simply give her about 15 to 30 seconds to relax before resuming stimulation. You'll both be surprised at how fast she will reach orgasm again when you resume the fun! My college friend Joanne explains:

"One time my boyfriend was stimulating me manually during sex, this usually has me coming within a few minutes, then he comes, and we fall asleep smiling. But this time he didn't stop! I came and he just kept rubbing me down there while he continued to thrust. Within a couple of minutes I had another and it was even bigger than the first! Then the third came and it was over the top. This doesn't happen often, but when it does, WOW!"

The second type of multiple orgasm is called the serial multiple orgasm. Here, the female rides a wave of continuous orgasms without any break in her soaring pleasure levels. Unlike sequential multiples, these orgasms occur very close together and may seem like one long continuous orgasm with multiple peak-points. This is an amazing feeling for her that usually occurs during intense lovemaking sessions where her most sensitive erogenous zones are continuously stimulated. Although, you won't have to give her any down time like you may have to with the sequential multiple orgasm. She'll have one, then the others will come seconds afterwards. A serial orgasm is usually more likely to occur after a long and intense session of foreplay. Get her arousal levels soaring before penetration occurs and you'll be more likely to send her on an orgasm rollercoaster she won't want to get off of.

Lise is one of my most 'sexually liberated' friends and she's just recently discovered the secret to the multiple-O. Here's how she explains the serial type of multiple orgasm, why it happened, and what it feels like:

"It used to be that our goal during sex was for the both of us to climax simultaneously," says Lise, "This is great and I really like the way it feels when he comes inside me when I am coming, but we've discovered that when I come first it's possible for me to have a string of orgasms that continues until I say when. One night we were having sex and he wasn't ready to come but I couldn't hold it in any longer. So I just let it out as he continued thrusting. The thrusting was pretty much in rhythm with the orgasmic pulses I was experiencing and somehow the orgasms just kept coming and coming. I've had plenty of orgasms before this happened for the first time but nothing quite like this. They're not quite as big, but the experience lasts a lot longer. It's like KABOOM for a single orgasm and BOOM, BOOM, BOOM, BOOOM (and so on) for the multiple. It's great once you become aware of this because eventually you can get to the point where you can decide what you would prefer that night."

There you have it. The basics on one of the most sought after orgasmic experiences that is within every woman's physical ability but is very dependant on your sexual skill. Hopefully you're curious enough to be interested in the "ins-and-out" (no pun intended) of how you can make her multiple orgasmic dreams come true. Tune in next week for a special how-to on multiple orgasms where I will let you in on the best approaches and techniques to try when attempting to being her to multi-O ecstacy.