Last month you have took advantage of this thing that
women crave more than chocolate: Romance. If you were
slick, you took advantage of your new found knowledge
and surprised her. You might even have gotten yourself
some sex.. But for those who are lazy and didn't
take advantage of this information or forgotten last month's
equation for more sex, here it is again:
The
Amount of Romance + The Amount of Seduction = The Amount
of Sex
Now
commit this equation to memory and don't forget it.
I am not going to want to remind you again. Sheesh. Men.
This
month we are going to teach you about the second part
of this equation, seduction.
If you look at romance it consists of things that you
do when you are around other people or things that your
partner will tell other people about the things you do.
Seduction is different for many people, but it is based
upon intimacy. When the two of you spend time alone, this
is when you need to take out your knowledge of seduction.
Where Seduction Starts
In order to seduce a female all you have to know is that
it starts with you. Seduction is about trying to build
interest in her to make her want you more. To build interest,
it starts with the things that you do and how you do it.
The Things that You Do
There are many things that you can do to seduce a girl,
but the first thing you have to look at is your appearance.
When any woman looks, she will judge you. It doesn't
matter who she is, she will make preconceived notions
about you. Your partner will even do this. Let's
look at an example. Say you have plans for dinner. If
you come and pick her up wearing jeans and a t-shirt,
she will not think that it is a big dinner, but if you
show up wearing a suit and tie, she will think it's
classy and will expect more. Looks, the way you smell,
and the way that you say things makes her want you more.
Your appearance is one thing that a man can control, so
it would be a good idea to always put your best foot forward.
How You Do It
There are many ways you can seduce her. As we said controlling
looks is a start but there are other things your can do
to help you. Using the element of surprise is one example.
Imagine surprising her with a gift. The look on her face
and the sparkle in her eyes will show you how much she
enjoys the gift. Surprises keep the female interested
in you and what you have in store for them. Surprises
make them want more.
Furthermore, you must learn how to do the little things
that she appreciates. Women notice the small things that
you do. So if you baby-sit your little niece or do something
small for her she will notice this. If you can find out
what she enjoys doing and do them with her, she will not
only notice but want to spend more time with you. Some
men might call this sucking up, but a master of seduction
calls these seduction points. The more seduction points
that you have the better a chance you have with getting
her into bed. It is these seduction points that increase
desire.
Seduction Ends With Her
When you finally master your part of the seduction equation,
the desire for you will increase, but it doesn't
end here. Now all you have to do is take advantage of
this desire and concentrate on her. Seduction will always
start with the male building desire and end with the male
giving her what she wants. Don't be at her beck and
call and give her things on a sliver platter. Do things
but surprising her. If done right she will be begging
for you. If done wrong, she may never want to talk to
you again.
When concentrating on the female, you will have to indulge
her senses, mainly the sense of sight, the sense of smell,
the sense of taste, the sense of hearing, and the sense
of touch.
Sense of Sight
The sense of sight works on the principal of how the man
looks and building desire through his actions. The scenery,
location, and atmosphere is also something you need to
look at. Try to choose a place where the two of you can
be alone and concentrate on each other. The best part
is this is the part of the seduction you can control.
Sense of Smell
The sense of smell can be built upon by using items such
as candles and incense. Take advantage of the soothing
effects that many senses have. Here is a list of a few
essential oils and their healing powers:
Frankincense: for calming emotions
Lavendar: for relaxation
Peppermint: for quick energy
Sandalwood: for relaxation,
digestion, dry skin
Jasmine: for confidence, sexuality,
creativity
Sense
of Taste
As many see it the desert is the final explosion of taste
in your mouth which leads to your senses salivating for
more. The men who know how to seduce usually have desert
saved at their home when dinner is over. There are many
essential foods that you should have in your house. All
of these promote sexual activities and the sense of taste.
Fruits: strawberries, apples, grapes, kiwis
Condiments: whipped cream,
chocolate syrup, honey
Sweets: Chocolate
Deserts: Ice Cream, Chocolate
Cake
Liquors: Bailey's Irish
Cream, Kahlua, Other Liquors
Wine: Red Wine, White Wine,
Blush, and Champagne
Sense
of Touch
There are many ways to touch a woman's body. For
beginners you should start with a feather like touch right
above her skin so you are only touching the small hairs
on her body. In time you build up a feather like touch
and then move on to finger tips. Use different types of
movements when you are using your fingers. Then there
is kissing, licking, sucking and biting. Each has their
own effects and you should see how your partner reacts
to each. Advanced people will know that an erotic massage
is the best way to touch a girl.
Sense of Hearing
Finally, the sense of hearing can deal with the soft sounds
of classical, jazz, or soft rock. Music should be playing
in the background and if set up right you should not even
know it is playing.
By incorporating what you have learned here, you will
be ready for the tips we are going to provide you on erogenous
zones. Stay tuned next month for these help hints, tips,
and secrets.
