Sexual Fantasies - Men & Women

Fantasies do many things to people. First of all it keeps them aroused which in turn will increase your desire for your partner. Fantasies also change the routine to make sex more interesting. By acting on some of your fantasies, sex will be different and in the end the entire experience will be more enjoyable.

Fantasies are often related to dreams and desires, and it is known that males and females dream and desires about sex are different. Females tend to view the romantic side of things and focus on specific things that happen. Males on the other hand look at the entire thing as a whole and do not focus on one thing but everything that happens from the start to the end.

Over the next few paragraphs we will look at the Top Male and Top Female Fantasies.

Top Male Fantasies

1. Manage a Trios
Also know as a threesome, this has always been a top fantasy of many men. I am not sure if it stems from being able to brag to their buddies that they did it or to see if they can handle two women (or two women can handle him). Many men crave it but never experience it. Although people wish they can incorporate this with their partners, the adverse effects can be detrimental to a relationship. Furthermore, if you want this to work you have to agree with your partner. The likely hood is that she will want a male and you will want a female.

2. Different Location
For many relationships, the only place that they have sex is in the house. And for the unfortunate ones, it takes place at the same time, on the same day, in the same room. A change in location can change a relationship for the better.

3. Getting Caught
Just by knowing that someone can walk in right away or you can get caught makes sex more exciting. These couples, who are not full exhibitionists, love the thrill. But beware of some consequences such as getting caught by a janitor or even the boss.

4. Prostitution
Many females find this fantasy disgusting though man men find it arousing. One of the reasons is because men want to see what they will do for them. These people feel that prostitutes are professionals at sex and will be better in bed. Prostitution can also lead to fulfilling the manage a trios fantasy. Be forewarned that having sex with prostitutes can put you at risk for catching a STD.

5. Voyerism
Men get excited when it comes to sexual activity, if a man's not doing it, he wants to watch it. Perhaps that is why the internet is laced with so much pornography. Men also watch adult videos and frequent strip clubs. But real voyeurism lies in a guy watching a female of a couple having sex without them knowing.

6. Role Playing
Men are visual people and seeing a woman dressed up in a different outfit can make their mind run wild. A French maid, a female police officer, or even a cheerleader can get a man excited.

7. A Female Off Limits
Sleeping with a female that is off limits is a fantasy that if fulfilled can have gave penalties. This fantasy includes sleeping with the boss's wife or a your girlfriend's best friend.

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Men fantasize about seeing someone, meeting them, having sex, and then never seeing them again. It is just some random stranger who they have just met. This might include having a one night stand with someone in a plane or picking someone up when travelling.

9 The Aggressive Female
Males who are usually the aggressor when it comes to sex, dream of being with a female that will dominate what happens in the bedroom. They want to find someone who is comfortable with their sexuality and controls then entire situation. Being tied up by their partner also falls in this category.

10. The Virgin
A lot of males have a fantasy about being some girls first lover. It may be because he will be able to control what she will do by him telling her or because she will be naive and will listen. None the less many want to deflower her.

Female Fantasies

1. Role Reversal
Many females want to know what it is like being the man and this is where role reversal comes in. Role reversal is when a women takes a strap on and uses to have sex with her partner. Although it seems different from past sexual activity that you have had, the sensations are different and, it might be something that you want to try. Just make sure there is lots of lube.

2. Rape Fantasy
This fantasy to have forced sex might sound like something that your women might not be into, but many females out there have this fantasy of some male barging in to their home, holding them down, and taking her from behind. Although this may be one of her fantasies, it doesn't give you permission to do it, so be weary.

3. Being a Stripper or Prostitute
These females want to be treated like a prostitute of stripper where as she gets paid for her services. She would act out her profession and do as the John said.

4. Group Sex
Like the male, a woman also things of having a threesome, but her threesome involves having another male in the situation.

5. Another Woman
Women imagine what it would be like to be with someone of the same sex, someone that knows how she wants to be touched and what will make her orgasm. Although it may be erotic to see two women kiss and have sex, it might be a different story when it is your partner.

6. Dominate Him
Women also want to be the aggressor and dominate the situation at hand. This includes tying him up and doing as she wishes to you. Telling him to do sexual acts on her as well as making him beg for what he wants. How do you let go of your controlling nature when it comes to sex? Well let the paddle hit your ass one time and you will start to listen.

7. Have others watching
This is where the exhibitionist comes out. She wants to have sex in public where people can see her perform sexual acts. Though it might not be what you are wanting, talking about what you are going to do to her while someone might be listening can also turn her on.

8. Dominate her
Some females want to be dominated and told what to do during sex. Even though it sounds like a guys fantasy, what the women does during this is her fantasy. Some women said they would listen to their partner, while others said they would do the opposite of what her master said to do and waits to be punished.

9. Have many men touch her at the same time
This fantasy involves having many men around her who will kiss her, touch her, and penetrate her. She would just sit back and enjoy the sensations that are happening around her.

10. Stranger
Meeting a stranger for one night of great sex where you can do anything you want and have anything done to you. This is where uninhibited sex takes place and she will not be judged if she wants anal sex or just to sleep with you and have you ravish her. Many women still worry about what you will think of her if she has slept with many men or has had sex with a female. The meeting with a stranger throws out all these worries.

When fantasizing, you are the one in control, and the one who receives all the pleasure. You control the entire situation in your mind. These are your fantasies. Although it might differ from someone else's, the top fantasies of males are relatively the same. Though many men fantasize about things, it doesn't mean that you will go through with it.